Today celebrates my father who has never said “You write strange poems, daughter,” as the father in the song that follows. Instead, you gift me books with my own poetry, take me places, cook, eat, win, hike and enjoy life, as you should.
First, one song in three fully diverse versions, just because its title is My father, even though he is nothing like you. In the song, his son is devastated on the inside because this father cannot understand that the world moves forward, whereas you not only don’t complain over what I do but are a fan. For my second birthday in a row, which comes just after the National Poetry Writing Month, you gathered all my 30+1 poems written in April in a neat book, for which I’m eternally grateful. Now the internet may die. (Well… almost.)
The song was written in 1979 by Slovenian singer/songwriter Andrej Šifrer and was included on one of the first cassettes that I listened to non-stop and knew inside out. Here is a live version.
The next version is by punk band Racija. Beware. 😀
And finally, in a twist of coincidence, now, 40 years after the original, the song got covered by Musical Youth, a band that scored a big hit with Pass the Dutchie back in the days. Something tells me you’ll like this version the most.
And now have a look what we have been up to together since your last birthday in twenty photos, two of them by you:
You took me to the festival of garlic and wine in Nova vas nad Dragonjo. The rucksack was for four kilos of garlic that you bought. They had a food tasting, shrimps fried in their own shell crumbs. Never before. Good! Then you took me to Trieste where you had a short interview with James Joyce. We had some gelato on the pier (of San Carlo?). With The Girls from Trieste, as this monument is called. Many went to sew overseas. (Right?) We found the Ginger tea house and it saved your life, you said. It was a really hot day. And they had glorious cakes, not just tea. At Pirat restaurant in Piran and all sorts of yum sea food. You bought this succulents because mom loves them. ❤ This is your magic happy-making garden in Piran. Your photo. Guests are happy here too. Photo: BM Then you hopped over to your other garden in Ljubljana to win our annual card tournament. One day we spent on the tour of western Slovenia. Photo: BM. A hayrack, typical Slovenian structure, in Škofja Loka open-air museum. First joint hike, after a while. We used to do it regularly. Javorca chapel above Tolmin. The Julian Alps are pretty majestic. Keep an eye on her so that she doesn’t fly away. 😀 Our pre-Christmas party, with my sister and your brother with his Jelka. Hard to take a photo and make a toast, with limoncello. Good to see that you like what you make. Asparagus with prosciutto and eggs and a mysterious crunchy. The restaurant at the Kodeljevo Castle accepts dogs but I don’t think quite in this way. A test shot with the borrowed pro Nikon.
Und zum Schluss, so eine ungramatische Sache dass du hat nicht expectiert (ich kann mich nicht das korrekte Verb errinern… “vorschaut?”). Warum sollst nur du Englisch sprechen und lesen, weil du hat es nie im Schule gelernt? So probiere ich mal mit mein Deutsch (ohne Google translate). Du hast geleben und geartbeitet in Wien fuer vielen Jahre und ich hat dich dort besuchen viel und gern. Aber auch frueher hab ich Radio Ö3 nachgehoert und ich errinere mich (mir?) um diese Schlager aus die andere Steiermark.
Prost, Papi, babbo, dad and oči Branko!
And for the very end, a collection of all the birthday posts on my three previous blogs, just in case, to have another look before the internet dies. 😉
After your German I understand how strong is my English. But any way: thanks😄
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Hahhahhah! Du bist korrekt! 😀
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Alles Gute zum Geburtstag, Manjas Vater! 🥂
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Danke, Sabine! 😀 I hope you didn’t laugh too much at my German. I didn’t wish to consult the internet for some words and expressions on purpose. 😀 All from memory.
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Nein Manja, ich habe nicht ueber dein deutsch gelacht! You did a great job from memory! I often have to look up German words because my German is somewhat rusty. I hope you had a wonderful celebration with your family!
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What a wonder-wonder-wonderful Birthday-Post. Papas are the best. I thought the same with mine. I wish your father all the best for his birthday, I wish both of you many wonderful moments together. What a wonderful person he must be to just let you grow in your own way. Thanks for sharing your story!
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Ahh, thank you so much, Sandra for saying this and getting this feeling from my post. 🙂 Welcome to my blog, I share my story in many aspects all the time. He and I are in different countries right now but it will change soon. 🙂
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Hope your father has a wonderful birthday and many more years ahead of him.
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Thank you so much, Sheree! ❤
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Happy birthday papa MMM!!! He really looks like a great guy, we need more like him and less arses around here.
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Ahh, grazie, Fabrizio! 🙂 I’m glad you get this from my post. Now that he spends more time in Piran so near Itay, he has mellowed down considerably. Italy is good for all of us. 😀
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Moving tribute!
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Thank you, PP! Always welcome!
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Wonderful to find a castle that is dog freindly, and I am in awe of the Julian Alps. You knew I would be, right?
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Thank you, Amanda. 🙂 I remember vividly going to a slide show from a trip to New Zealand where they told us that over there they have the Alps as well! 😮 This castle is in a bit of disrepair apart from this restaurant which is warmly recommended.
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A tumble down castle
..how exotic!!
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I missed your dad’s birthday! What a wonderful post/toast to him. Happy Belated Birthday, Papa!
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Thank you so much, Lois. 🙂 You see, you haven’t really missed it. 😉
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Nicht schlimm. Ich wusste es nicht, dass du Deutsch sprichst.
Btw, errinere mich….
expectiert….erwartet
The Julian Alps are pretty majestic. I agree.
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Hihihi. Ich weiss nicht ob man das Deutsch sprechen heissen kann. But thank you, Bojana, I never wrote much in German (2 years of German in high school were so hard), only spoke some when in Wien. And thank you for the corrections. Expectiert should be allowed. 😀
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Erlauben?
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Nice tribute to Dad. Great smile says he is a fun and loving man. You have been blessed.
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Ahh, that’s a lovely observation. Thank you so much, MythRider, and welcome to my blog!
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;0)
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Herzlich Glückwunsch für deinen Vater! 😁👍🏼💐
….und Prost auf dein gutes Deutsch! 😘👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
…und Pass the dutchie habe ich auch geliebt
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Danke, Markus! 😀
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When you share photos of your family, I can’t help but smile at the lot of you. Living well, doing the life authentically and beautifully. Love it all. ❤
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Joey, this is such a beautiful comment, thank you so much! ❤ I'm so glad you see it this way. I read it to my father just earlier and I could see how pleased he was. ❤ ❤ ❤
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Good. That was my desired impact. Sometimes it’s hard to use words to express feelings, but it seems I managed.
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